About The Book
‘To My Beloved’ chronicles Shane and Heather Harstine’s journey from young love to building a life together rooted in faith and family. Their story begins one summer night when Shane, reluctantly convinced by his best friend James to go out, sees Heather across a club. Despite their age difference, Shane at 18 and Heather at 14, he feels an immediate connection and asks her to dance, marking the beginning of their relationship.
The book follows them as they develop their bond over subsequent dates, shared activities, and building a foundation for their future. Shane attempts college but struggles to find his direction, while Heather focuses on her studies in physical therapy. They lean on family and friends for support as they figure out their individual paths while staying committed to each other.
After years of dating, Shane proposes on the beach, and they marry in July 2000, beginning married life with hope and shared dreams. Their journey takes them into real estate, where they learn about property management, tenant relationships, and entrepreneurship together. Success brings growth but also challenges that test their partnership.
Faith becomes increasingly important throughout their story. Shane and Heather search for a church community that meets their spiritual needs, seeking genuine relationships and accountability. When Shane faces serious illness, their faith and marriage are tested but ultimately strengthened.
The book reflects on lessons learned about balancing career ambitions with family priorities, the importance of vulnerability, and the power of authentic community. Shane and Heather share openly about struggles and triumphs, showing how commitment and faith guide them through every chapter of life together.